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Grounding 5-4-3-2-1
Use your five senses to come back to the present moment.
What it is
Grounding is a way of bringing your attention back to the present moment when anxiety, panic or distressing memories pull you away. The 5-4-3-2-1 exercise does this through your five senses.
How it helps
Anxiety and painful memories pull attention inward, towards racing thoughts and body alarms. Deliberately noticing what you can see, touch, hear, smell and taste moves attention back to the room you are in, which tells your nervous system that, right now, you are safe.
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Grounding 5-4-3-2-1
Step-by-step
Go slowly, and name each thing out loud or in your mind.
- 5 things you can see. A clock, a window, the colour of the wall, your own hands.
- 4 things you can touch. The chair under you, your clothes, the floor beneath your feet, a cool glass.
- 3 things you can hear. A fan, traffic, birds, your own breathing.
- 2 things you can smell. Soap, tea, the air in the room. If you can’t smell anything, think of two smells you like.
- 1 thing you can taste. Toothpaste, a sip of water, or simply the taste in your mouth.
Other ways to ground yourself
- Physical grounding: press your feet firmly into the floor and notice the pressure; hold something cool or textured and describe it to yourself.
- Mental grounding: say today’s date and where you are; count backwards from 100 in sevens; name as many fruits, cities or cricketers as you can.
When to use it
- During a panic attack, or when anxiety starts to rise.
- After a flashback or a nightmare.
- When you feel numb, unreal, or far away from yourself.
Safety notes
- If you feel unsafe or overwhelmed, contact the clinic, or call Tele-MANAS on 14416 (free, 24×7) or 112 for emergencies.
References
- Najavits, L. M. (2002). Seeking safety: A treatment manual for PTSD and substance abuse. Guilford Press.
- Linehan, M. M. (2015). DBT skills training manual (2nd ed.). Guilford Press.
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